Guide to Buying (and Using) Sex Toys
Whether you’re curious about vibrators, dildos, or anal beads, we’ll walk you through how to choose and use these toys to fit your preferences.
Classic Vibrators
Classic vibrators are versatile, beginner-friendly, and perfect for targeting areas like the clitoris and G-spot. From bullet vibes to wand massagers, there’s a lot to explore.
How to Use a Vibrator:
1.Apply a bit of lube for comfort.
2.Start with a lower setting and work your way up as you adjust.
3.Try it on different areas, from the vulva to the clit, and even on testicles.
Clitoral Suction Vibrators
With over 10,000 nerve endings, the clitoris is highly responsive to stimulation. Clitoral suction vibrators mimic a gentle sucking sensation, making them a favorite among those seeking intense clitoral pleasure.
How to Use a Clitoral Stimulator:
1.Use a small amount of water-based lube around the suction tip.
2.Start low and adjust intensity as needed.
3.Tilt and reposition to find the ideal angle for maximum enjoyment.
Rabbit Vibrators
These dual-action toys provide both vaginal and clitoral stimulation.
How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator:
1.Insert the phallic part vaginally and let the “rabbit ears” focus on the clit.
2.Adjust speed and vibration for the ideal level of stimulation.
Hands-Free Vibrators
For those who want to multitask, hands-free or “panty” vibrators are perfect for discreet pleasure on the go.
How to Use a Hands-Free Vibrator:
1.Choose a style that works for you — some fit inside underwear, while others are designed to rest against the body.
2.These can be used alone or even during intercourse for added stimulation.
Classic Dildos
Classic dildos provide endless options for internal or external stimulation and come in various sizes and materials.
How to Use a Dildo:
1.Use plenty of lube to enhance comfort.
2.Experiment with different angles and depths to discover what feels best.
Double-Ended Dildos
Ideal for partners who both enjoy penetration, double-ended dildos offer a shared experience.
How to Use a Double-Ended Dildo:
1.Apply lube generously.
2.Attach to a harness if desired, or take turns controlling the experience.
Anal Toys
Anal beads, plugs, and vibrators add a different dimension to play for all genders.
How to Use Anal Toys:
1.Always use lube, as the anus doesn’t self-lubricate.
2.Start with smaller toys and work up in size to avoid discomfort.
Cock Rings
Cock rings are designed to enhance erections by restricting blood flow for intensified pleasure.
How to Use a Cock Ring:
1.Slide it to the base of a semi-erect penis.
2.Ensure the ring fits snugly but isn’t too tight.
Male Masturbators
Masturbation sleeves and strokers offer textured, realistic sensations for enhanced solo or partnered play.
How to Use a Male Masturbator:
1.Lube is key for a realistic feel.
2.For added excitement, try using a stroker during oral sex.
Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps add an element of sensation play, ideal for anyone exploring kink.
How to Use Nipple Clamps:
1.Start with adjustable clamps to control the intensity.
2.Use during foreplay or sex for extra stimulation.
Kegel and Ben Wa Balls
These small, weighted balls aid in strengthening pelvic muscles, often improving sexual pleasure and control.
How to Use Kegel Balls:
1.Insert the ball and use your pelvic muscles to keep it in place.
2.Wear them discreetly throughout the day for added benefits.
Sex Furniture
Sex furniture can elevate your experience by making certain positions and acts more accessible.
How to Use Sex Furniture:
1.Start with positioning pillows for better support.
2.For a step up, try a sex swing to add variety to your playtime.
No matter what kind of toy you’re interested in, remember to go at your own pace and explore what feels best for you.